how silly the question is! he is he; she is she; i am i; then why the hell question 'are you you?'? ok well. let me reframe the question by including myself and everyone in this beautiful land. are we we? think for a while by waking all your deepest past and embedded soul. you have enjoyed this world for -- years. in that long lived life how many of us got all our wants full-filled and live the life we really wanted?
suppose you would like to go for a pub but if your sweet girlfriend asks you to accompany her for shopping; also you would like to go to temple but your sweet heart wants you to come for beach; ranging from this small wishes to longer ones like you longed to become anthropologist or psychoanalyst but your parents made you a physician; then you wanted to marry mary but you end up with rosy;
how many unfruitful attempts, shattered dreams, unhappy situations! leave aside all those things. i agree we do not have control over wishes getting full-filled. but how many of us are allowed to take efforts to full-fill our wants, wishes or needs?
you are the part of society and since you want to live sticking to it, you loose all your independence and individuality. being a part in the society how many of us achieved the co-ordination between the greatest brain and so called mind? all are proud to say they are extroverts. do they really think they are extroverts? ok assume they are claiming for their extroversion. can they just imagine what are the things they had lost to earn the title of extroverts. the moment you are amicable with anyone your individuality is injured atleast for 1 per cent. now comes the conflict between mind and brain. brain is very practical whereas your mind is very sentimental. everybody's brain needs solitude in contradiction to this everybody's mind needs lovely relationships. so no one is completely extrovert nor completely introvert. we are just toys of situation and everyone is ambivert. assume their is a complete introvert and can we conclude that he/she can say YES for the topic. no he too cannot. because an introvert struggles hard to define his own YOU (by sticking to grammar HE/SHE) then how could he can say yes? the pitiable so called introverts are adjusting their personalities all the time for themselves.
we need love, affection and friendship. for that we need adjustments. obviously your individuality is lost whenever you are adjusting for someone immaterial whether the person for whom are adjusting is your mom, dad, spouse or any other relation. so you cannot be 100% you, but you can try to be a better you.
ya here goes some tips to make a better YOU.
# none other can play your role better than you. so stop comparing and changing yourself.
# live the day. forget the unpleasant past and do not bother for the unknown future.
# try to be independent to the maximum extent you can.
# find your matching spouse. if you can't what is the harm in leading a single life?
# always defend your deeds, actions and words.
# do not adjust for anybody unless it is absolutely necessary.
last words. if you go on caring about society you will be fooled everytime. people have no time to keep an eye on what you are doing. even if some shit does that what harm you are going to face with that. so, live for yourself. be a better YOU.
i am not against friendship or love. i am believing that being oneself is more important than friendship or love. keep your inner circle small or if possible even make it one with zero radii.
NOW ask yourself "are you you?"
suppose you would like to go for a pub but if your sweet girlfriend asks you to accompany her for shopping; also you would like to go to temple but your sweet heart wants you to come for beach; ranging from this small wishes to longer ones like you longed to become anthropologist or psychoanalyst but your parents made you a physician; then you wanted to marry mary but you end up with rosy;
how many unfruitful attempts, shattered dreams, unhappy situations! leave aside all those things. i agree we do not have control over wishes getting full-filled. but how many of us are allowed to take efforts to full-fill our wants, wishes or needs?
you are the part of society and since you want to live sticking to it, you loose all your independence and individuality. being a part in the society how many of us achieved the co-ordination between the greatest brain and so called mind? all are proud to say they are extroverts. do they really think they are extroverts? ok assume they are claiming for their extroversion. can they just imagine what are the things they had lost to earn the title of extroverts. the moment you are amicable with anyone your individuality is injured atleast for 1 per cent. now comes the conflict between mind and brain. brain is very practical whereas your mind is very sentimental. everybody's brain needs solitude in contradiction to this everybody's mind needs lovely relationships. so no one is completely extrovert nor completely introvert. we are just toys of situation and everyone is ambivert. assume their is a complete introvert and can we conclude that he/she can say YES for the topic. no he too cannot. because an introvert struggles hard to define his own YOU (by sticking to grammar HE/SHE) then how could he can say yes? the pitiable so called introverts are adjusting their personalities all the time for themselves.
we need love, affection and friendship. for that we need adjustments. obviously your individuality is lost whenever you are adjusting for someone immaterial whether the person for whom are adjusting is your mom, dad, spouse or any other relation. so you cannot be 100% you, but you can try to be a better you.
ya here goes some tips to make a better YOU.
# none other can play your role better than you. so stop comparing and changing yourself.
# live the day. forget the unpleasant past and do not bother for the unknown future.
# try to be independent to the maximum extent you can.
# find your matching spouse. if you can't what is the harm in leading a single life?
# always defend your deeds, actions and words.
# do not adjust for anybody unless it is absolutely necessary.
last words. if you go on caring about society you will be fooled everytime. people have no time to keep an eye on what you are doing. even if some shit does that what harm you are going to face with that. so, live for yourself. be a better YOU.
i am not against friendship or love. i am believing that being oneself is more important than friendship or love. keep your inner circle small or if possible even make it one with zero radii.
NOW ask yourself "are you you?"
