To lead a better marital life

Though I am single, with my observations i am trying my best to say about some simple principles with which we can enjoy the happiest marital life.

First for guys,

The mistake often we people do is not showing our love explicitly to our spouse. Unfortunately that is the biggest expectation of the opposite sex. Many of the girls are complaining that their husband is not as same as he was before marriage. Guys think, we are spending more time waiting for girl friend when she was lover but failing to wait for even a 5-minute after marriage. Many of our people will go verbose on accusing girls for taking more time for dressing, make up and in shopping. But we people enjoy actually being out with beautifully dressed spouse. So what harm in waiting for she to get her things finished before going out? How much time we are spending in chat and surfing useless things? Think for a while.

Where do our romantic messages and talks vanishes after marriage? We people are comfortable with friends (of either sex) always, but not the same with our beloved spouse. Be romantic, flirt and joyful to the lady love forever. Just do that for a day and see the response it will be extremely pleasing.

Do not try lying with the wife. If you got caught red handed later the love meter readings will suddenly fall to negative values. Speak openly with the better half for at least some 15 minutes about the days' incidents before bed.

Try to fulfill her fantasies to the best possible extent. Do not forget to kiss before leaving for work. Take her out for a date at least once a week. If you follow these simple things you will be a deity for your lady.

My dear lady friends,

i. avoid calling, messaging or mailing your hubby unless it is absolutely necessary. Things such as "dear honey had lunch?" will be sweet for a few days but later it will be annoying when he found that message at peak of work

ii. Believe the fact that your man loves you the most than anything on this earth. But we poor guys are not talented enough to explicitly express it in innovative way everyday.

iii. Kindly treat generously your spouse's forgetfulness. If he forget something that is absolutely unintentional and it does not mean he has forgotten you and your love.

iv. Do not try to expose your possessiveness. Possessiveness is sweet but not always. Show it in times when it will be sounding beautiful.

v. Last but not the least do not compare yourself with your man's best friend (of either sex). You are so much important than the best friends for your hubby. So do not degrade your level by those silly comparisons.

With these things well understood you can make your man to do whatever you like. Also You can well root the thought that 'i am lucky to have her' in the brain for your guy.

For the betterment of both mr and mrs,

Understand the fact that 'giving away your own opinion for your spouse nature is a temporary solution. The permanent solution will be accepting his/her character'. Always give pleasant surprises to your better half (Make sure that it will be happy ones else surprises will become shocks). Share gifts on important days like anniversary, day of first meet, day of proposal etc. Greet at midnight 12 on the day of birthday with a sweet kiss and nice gift. Solve problems by having a nice conversation. Value the friends of your spouse. Better make them as your brother or sister.

You cannot lead a single life for long time. You may think you are happy as a single but reality differs. Let us make the earth a heaven and a very happy place to live in by leading a charming double family.

Long live anthropes.